Because of my aha moments regarding lack of awareness I feel confident that I have probably communicated differently with people from other groups than myself. It is not that I have purposefully set our to treat them different or communicate with them different, but I am sure it has occurred.
The strategies that I will incorporate into my daily life will be as follows: first, social decentering, which is a cognitive process in which you take into account the other person's thoughts, values, background, and overall perspective. Second, becoming other oriented, focusing on others rather than yourself. Lastly, develop a third culture, which is created when the communication partners join aspects of separate cultures to create a third, "new" culture that is more comprehensive and inclusive than either of the two separate cultures (Beebe, et al., 2011).
References
Beebe, S. A., Beebe, S. J., & Redmond, M. V. (2011). Interpersonal communication: Relating to others (6th ed.). Boston, MA: Allyn & Bacon.
Yes, I think we all unintentionally communicate with certain groups differently. Well, not differently in a bad way but for example you wouldn't speak with a less educated person the same way you would speak with a college professor. Even when working with children, we speak with them differently than we would as colleagues. Speaking to somemone differently doesn't mean your communication with them is ineffective.
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